What is a fair expectation of children during mealtime according to current practices?

The appropriate expectation during mealtime, particularly in settings fostering independence and self-sufficiency, is that children should practice self-feeding, even if it gets messy. Allowing children to self-feed promotes their fine motor skills, encourages autonomy, and helps them develop a positive relationship with food. Messiness is a natural part of the learning process, particularly for young children, as they explore different textures, flavors, and the mechanics of eating. Engaging in self-feeding also enhances their confidence and decision-making skills regarding food choices.

Encouraging self-feeding aligns with current early childhood education practices that advocate for hands-on learning experiences. In contrast, the other options suggest levels of dependence or control that do not support a child's growth in independence and self-regulation during meals.